I would agree with you on that most of the time Paul, but that 180 hunter and my .30-06 just weren't meant to be. I haven't completely given up yet, but I called it several things my mother wouldn't have liked to hear me say!
Brad,
My 1894 in .357 is like RB's. It shoots several bullets well. It doesn't feed KT type bullets unless crimped over the front band. My .44 1894 is just like yours and I watched your post closely. Mine likes the NOE 432-265 at .431, and shoots the DP version considerably better than either the FP or HP. I've got a .432 sizer from Lathesmith now, for my Starr sizer, to see if that makes it shoot any better. I've got an old 336 in .44 that will shoot anything I put in it, cast or jacketed.
I'm not sure there is any magic either, but it sure felt like it when I paired my 336 in .30-30 with the early model 165 RD bullet, at 1850 fps, wearing Bens Red. It's not likely to see anything else any time soon.