Being long of tooth, I remember as a kid going to the cemetey and decorating headstones of relatives, and it was called back then "Decoration Day". I believe congress changed the name to Memorial Day in the early 70's.
When in Normandy, and at the American Cemetery, two years ago, it was my honor to place a rose on the cross of a fallen SSgt. from Ne. There was a ceremony for Americans, where the Star Spangle Banner, and Taps were played, and each couple was giver a rose to place on a grave. A very humbling and thoughtful experience.
Paul