"Im really hoping my knee coperates enough for a quick home depot run"
CW, there ain't no shame in using one of those electric carts.
It's worse to get to the back of the store, then have to ask someone to fetch one for you.
I've had to do it a few times.
Kind of a humbling experience for a strapping 42 yo to reach down and not be able to pick up that bag of dog food a week out of a cast and have to ask a stocker to put it in the cart because you have no grip strength and what's there may as well come with a red hot electrified ice pick jabbed through thumb carpals and grounded mid-radius .
The knee surgery , an O scope sheep shearing like event on the inside for several masses of torn tendons , was and easy recovery by contrast .
Today my daughter in San Antonio wrote ;
I will say, growing up having to go without or having to wait for things because of items being unavailable, too far or whatever the reason.it had made me calm reasonable and understanding toward others during this time. Even if I didn't get it as a child, I get it now. I can look at my babies and tell them, " We prepare for ourselves, help our neighbors and only get what we need. We don't just buy so others have to go without. We stock slowly. rotate the pantry and help where we can." Please be kind and we can make everyone's loads lighter.
It was kind of weird , at first it felt like I made her and her siblings do without . Then the dust shook loose some and I remembered we lived 75 miles from Walmart , a movie theater or a dining establishment we didn't know menus by heart .
My oldest boy now in Az replied ;
My Sgt out here asked if we had family in Texas and seemed surprised when I told him I wasn't worried.
There's not much the world can throw at us we can't handle, and for the rest we have each other.
My daughter replied ;
Even if we breakdown for a second, we generally compose ourselves until the task is done. Then we loose our (composure) away from everyone, dry our eyes and move on to the next task .
I think until you've really wondered if you did okay as a parent and the kids have weathered some adversities far enough away you can't do anything , even if you could , that you don't have full appreciation for a conversation like this one .
If my number comes up tomorrow I don't think I could have any doubts or worries about them being okay and getting by .