You and I must be in a class by ourselves, but that's the way it is. You'd think with all the tens of thousands of rounds I've cast, loaded, and shot in .38 revolvers over the years that I'd be used to them shooting quite high, but really it has always bugged me. In the K-38 I could cut the amount in half with the adjustable rear sight before it ran out of room, so it was a little more tolerable than the Victory Model 10.
Someone gave me a mostly-full cardboard keg of 473AA and I played a little with that, finally decided the Speer #11 data was too danged hot and a nice, 80%-throttle target load ended up being .2 grains below starting loads, at 4.3 grains. I really like it and it hits right where the 4.1 of Titegroup did, with similar accuracy. Not that I'm short on Titegroup, but the old Winchester powder seems to react less with the powder coating and it needs to be used up.