Been thinking about Veterans - American and German.
I was friends with a couple who were a bit older than my parents, but but not as old as my grandparents. He was a WWII vet. Quiet, kind, calm, composed and had the warmest smile. Took care of his family, never talked about the War.
His wife had a very prominent German accent, did not smile a lot and was always on guard, wary, worrisome, but kind too and very concerned for anyone around her. Even as a German civilian, she was a WWII Veteran for certain. She would talk to anyone who would listen and few did. No one wanted to hear that stuff.
She told me many stories, mostly how she and others had fallen under Hitler's spell as a child, collected money in a can on street corners for Hitler's Youth to support the cause. Shen ended up spent her "high school" years hiding from Nazis, running from place to place, hoping someone would put them up for a day or a week, constantly on the run and never knowing whom to trust. Apparently her father had figured out something she had not and wised up, which turned out to be dangerous.
Boy, she talked. She had dire warnings about trusting charismatic leaders and worried for American, always warning not to let what we have slip away. This was while I was in high school and I got an education no young high school history teacher could ever hope to provide.
She and he met toward the end of the war, married and she came home with her. They both passed within the last five years. I ran into their oldest son a few years ago and he had managed to get his dad flown to DC, either in an old military aircraft, or to go fly in one one lat time just before he passed.
She wrote/self-published a short book on the matter and I had a copy at one time. I remember how disappointing it was that it was so short. It was not much more than a travel brochure and he had so much to tell. She never hesitated to talk if someone would listen, as much as it pained her to relive it.
I've always felt privileged to have been able to sit and listen to her. Older people didn't want to relive it and younger people just didn't care.